[yeah. they seem sorry for that, though, but nod slowly.]
I don't mean to be blunt. I understand why you ask. [...] I used to tend to a graveyard. I've met a lot of people dealing with grief.
Often they're, uh, coming to our temple, hoping for a particular type of miracle. And the world is full of miracles, even from the little I've seen of it, but the desire for that particular one is what I've most often seen tear people apart.
Accepting loss is...the only route to heal from it.
If something has happened that's worth being sad about, I'd like the opportunity to feel sad about it. I think those feelings are usually necessary ones.
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I don't mean to be blunt. I understand why you ask. [...] I used to tend to a graveyard. I've met a lot of people dealing with grief.
Often they're, uh, coming to our temple, hoping for a particular type of miracle. And the world is full of miracles, even from the little I've seen of it, but the desire for that particular one is what I've most often seen tear people apart.
Accepting loss is...the only route to heal from it.
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I've always thought that granting that miracle was the solution.
Then again, I'm all about turning away from the hard parts in life. ...Maybe that's why it's hard for me to change.
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Many do. Even me. It all depends which parts are the ones you don't want to look at. [...] What kind of miracle would you try to grant?
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The kind where you don't ever have to be sad again? ...Even if it means believing in an illusion.
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It would be nice, not to have to be sad. A little hollow, but nice.
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If something has happened that's worth being sad about, I'd like the opportunity to feel sad about it. I think those feelings are usually necessary ones.